19 Aug Prostate play
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Sometimes girls and the folks with vaginas get to have all the fun. We have a clit, a G-spot, and an endless buffet of dildo and vibrator options. But it’s 2024, and we’re all about equality in the workplace AND the bedroom. There’s no reason that boys can’t join in on all of the fun when prostate play comes into the picture. The tip of your dick is like our clit, and your prostate is like our G-spot! But it can be understandably difficult to bring this up with your partner if it’s something new, so in this blog, I’m going to give a little advice for how to make the first move, whether it’s your prostate you want to explore or if you want to explore your partner’s for the first time.
First, a few basics about the prostate. It’s a small gland a few inches into the butt that produces the seminal fluid needed to cum the way that nature intended. It’s only a couple of inches deep, behind the bladder, and shaped like a walnut. You can reach it with one finger and stimulate it using the same come-hither motion used to get at our G-spot. Before you play, you can use an enema or take some fiber supplements throughout the day to make sure you’re nice and clean up there, it’s a lot easier to enjoy yourself when you’re not worried about making a mess. Use plenty of lube and keep some wet wipes on hand, just in case. Having a bullet vibrator or your favorite stroker to play with your dick will make the experience even more *chef’s kiss*.
Let’s start with how to bring it up if you’re the one who wants to have your prostate played with. You might have some preconceived notions about what butt stuff means to a guy because our parents, sex education, and pop culture did you dirty by making sexuality seem like a rigid and binary thing. No, getting your ass touched doesn’t make you gay or effeminate; the things you like to have done to your own body have nothing to do with that. Most of your partners would be more than happy to explore that with you without a hint of judgment; all you have to do is ask! Set the mood, be prepared, and relax. Hold onto your hat because the difference between a dick orgasm and a butt orgasm is pretty intense by all accounts.
Now, if you want to play with your partner’s prostate, you might run into the same issues about masculinity and sexuality mentioned above. Just bring it up and be direct. Try telling them that you’ve heard that the orgasm is mind-blowing, and you would find it so dang hot if you got to make them feel that way. Be reassuring, keep your nails short, and remember that there’s no such thing as too much lube! Maybe throw in an offer to let them return the favor with some anal of your own to sweeten the deal. Just remember to never do it without their consent; nobody likes to be surprised with penetration.
If your partner doesn’t want to participate, that’s fine as well. Don’t take it as a rejection or an insult, it’s just a personal choice. There are plenty of high-quality prostate and P-spot toys you can get for solo play, where you get the added benefit of being able to go at your own pace in private. Toys are a great option if your partner wants to play as well. Either way, our bodies are wonderful machines, and we only get one of them, so there’s no reason for us not to spend a little time checking out all the hidden treasures that’ll make our time on this plane a little more enjoyable.
You can find some useful information about prostate play and safety here.
And maybe check out Lovense’s Edge 2 toy; it’s my partner’s favorite and can be controlled by your or anyone else with the connected app.
Riley Cyriis is a New England-based indie content creator and mortician. She owns Cyriis Studios with her partner, Ryan Cyriis. She’s a cult survivor, a heavily-armed liberal, and the enemy of corruption and greed.
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Sometimes girls and the folks with vaginas get to have all the fun. We have a clit, a G-spot, and an endless buffet of dildo and vibrator options. But it’s 2024, and we’re all about equality in the workplace AND the bedroom. There’s no reason that boys can’t join in on all of the fun when prostate play comes into the picture. The tip of your dick is like our clit, and your prostate is like our G-spot! But it can be understandably difficult to bring this up with your partner if it’s something new, so in this blog, I’m going to give a little advice for how to make the first move, whether it’s your prostate you want to explore or if you want to explore your partner’s for the first time.
First, a few basics about the prostate. It’s a small gland a few inches into the butt that produces the seminal fluid needed to cum the way that nature intended. It’s only a couple of inches deep, behind the bladder, and shaped like a walnut. You can reach it with one finger and stimulate it using the same come-hither motion used to get at our G-spot. Before you play, you can use an enema or take some fiber supplements throughout the day to make sure you’re nice and clean up there, it’s a lot easier to enjoy yourself when you’re not worried about making a mess. Use plenty of lube and keep some wet wipes on hand, just in case. Having a bullet vibrator or your favorite stroker to play with your dick will make the experience even more *chef’s kiss*.
Let’s start with how to bring it up if you’re the one who wants to have your prostate played with. You might have some preconceived notions about what butt stuff means to a guy because our parents, sex education, and pop culture did you dirty by making sexuality seem like a rigid and binary thing. No, getting your ass touched doesn’t make you gay or effeminate; the things you like to have done to your own body have nothing to do with that. Most of your partners would be more than happy to explore that with you without a hint of judgment; all you have to do is ask! Set the mood, be prepared, and relax. Hold onto your hat because the difference between a dick orgasm and a butt orgasm is pretty intense by all accounts.
Now, if you want to play with your partner’s prostate, you might run into the same issues about masculinity and sexuality mentioned above. Just bring it up and be direct. Try telling them that you’ve heard that the orgasm is mind-blowing, and you would find it so dang hot if you got to make them feel that way. Be reassuring, keep your nails short, and remember that there’s no such thing as too much lube! Maybe throw in an offer to let them return the favor with some anal of your own to sweeten the deal. Just remember to never do it without their consent; nobody likes to be surprised with penetration.
If your partner doesn’t want to participate, that’s fine as well. Don’t take it as a rejection or an insult, it’s just a personal choice. There are plenty of high-quality prostate and P-spot toys you can get for solo play, where you get the added benefit of being able to go at your own pace in private. Toys are a great option if your partner wants to play as well. Either way, our bodies are wonderful machines, and we only get one of them, so there’s no reason for us not to spend a little time checking out all the hidden treasures that’ll make our time on this plane a little more enjoyable.
You can find some useful information about prostate play and safety here.
And maybe check out Lovense’s Edge 2 toy; it’s my partner’s favorite and can be controlled by your or anyone else with the connected app.
Riley Cyriis is a New England-based indie content creator and mortician. She owns Cyriis Studios with her partner, Ryan Cyriis. She’s a cult survivor, a heavily-armed liberal, and the enemy of corruption and greed.
