24 Jul Sexual instinct: Unleashing and embracing pleasure
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We all have different kinks and fetishes of assorted levels and imagination. We know what we like, we explore, we play! I couldn’t help but think that something other than actual penetration ties these all together, and then it hit me! The biggest, best and possibly the most overlooked aspect of why we are all a bunch of dirty birds is sexual instinct! That’s right, I said instinct. Our primordial urge to reproduce! Now, I don’t mean we all want to start popping out babies, but the general drive behind our sexual instincts does stem from the literal need to reproduce as creatures of this earth. The point is, unleashing your sexual instinct can not only give you an extra boost into “the mood” but can re-light that fire in a relationship that’s in a rut. Again, this doesn’t mean you actually want to, need to or intend to create a new life. Keeping it all fantasy does the job just fine! Now, there is more to it than impregnation, and it’s not restricted to any specific kinks. It doesn’t even have to be present in your mind during your sexual adventures. You may be asking yourself, “But, Kitty? If I don’t think about it during sex, how will it work?” Great question! The answer is simple. You are wired for it! Your sexual instinct to perform our mating rituals will take over without interrupting whatever specific fetish or kink you are heading to. It’s a beautiful thing!
Some fetishes play directly into this; others, not so much. Either way, just acknowledging your instinct can start your engine and prepare you for any bedroom activities. The smallest thought of it revs my engine like nothing else ever has (and that’s saying a LOT considering the exploration a decade-long marriage and just as long in this industry can provide!). The animalistic and intense venture that is embarked upon once you are heading down that road will change your sex life like you never imagined anything could. Your body naturally reacts to the notion of reproducing, and it prepares itself mentally and physically. Don’t believe me? Try it! All you have to do is think about it. Just picture being impregnated or “planting your seed” with your partner, and also (possibly the most important part) imagine them WANTING that same exact thing. It’s the need to make that baby from both sides. Even if that’s not the intention, even if you don’t bring it up to them. When I say that no matter the kinks you and your partner practice, this little thought before or during will get you ready for anything and everything. We listen to our instincts on so many levels in our lives. This shouldn’t be any different.
"THE POINT IS, UNLEASHING YOUR SEXUAL INSTINCT CAN NOT ONLY GIVE YOU AN EXTRA BOOST INTO "THE MOOD" BUT CAN RE-LIGHT THAT FIRE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT'S IN A RUT."
To quote Robert California (I know, please don’t hate me!), “All life is sex”, and no statement is more true. It literally is. Life on this earth is sustained by water, food and sex. Awaken this in your mind; I promise it will bring you a sexual high that will never fade. In fact, as you read through this, you feel a little more alive than you did when you started… go with it! It’s pure body honesty, it’s natural, and it’s ingrained in our DNA to have sex! Let your mind wander with this. The moment I realized that my pregnancy fantasy wasn’t as much about actually HAVING a baby but more about “mating” changed my life. In fact, I was so worked up that I actually stopped my husband from what he was doing for a little afternoon roll in the hay. Not to mention, that feeling has not gone away, and it’s been well over a year since I had this realization. Now, at first, I didn’t tell him. I kept it for myself for months before I mustered up the courage to mention it, and I am so glad I did! It’s more than just “I want to put my baby in you” too. Over the last year, without elaborating too much, I’ve realized I want him to smell me, taste me, bite my neck and more.
All of these things and more play into instinct. Think about it. You like how your partner smells for a reason; you want intimacy with them for a reason! Why? Your body and mind are connecting with your partner! It knows what to do; you just have to take it all in and enjoy it! It’s become a full-body experience, without fail, every single time. We all have different experiences; this one, in particular, is something we can all share as creatures of the world. The acts might be different, but are they not all the same in the end? It’s fun, it’s healthy, and it’s a part of you. Whether you are flying solo in this fantasy or sharing it with your partner, you will not be disappointed! Trust those sexual instincts!
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We all have different kinks and fetishes of assorted levels and imagination. We know what we like, we explore, we play! I couldn’t help but think that something other than actual penetration ties these all together, and then it hit me! The biggest, best and possibly the most overlooked aspect of why we are all a bunch of dirty birds is sexual instinct! That’s right, I said instinct. Our primordial urge to reproduce! Now, I don’t mean we all want to start popping out babies, but the general drive behind our sexual instincts does stem from the literal need to reproduce as creatures of this earth. The point is, unleashing your sexual instinct can not only give you an extra boost into “the mood” but can re-light that fire in a relationship that’s in a rut. Again, this doesn’t mean you actually want to, need to or intend to create a new life. Keeping it all fantasy does the job just fine! Now, there is more to it than impregnation, and it’s not restricted to any specific kinks. It doesn’t even have to be present in your mind during your sexual adventures. You may be asking yourself, “But, Kitty? If I don’t think about it during sex, how will it work?” Great question! The answer is simple. You are wired for it! Your sexual instinct to perform our mating rituals will take over without interrupting whatever specific fetish or kink you are heading to. It’s a beautiful thing!
Some fetishes play directly into this; others, not so much. Either way, just acknowledging your instinct can start your engine and prepare you for any bedroom activities. The smallest thought of it revs my engine like nothing else ever has (and that’s saying a LOT considering the exploration a decade-long marriage and just as long in this industry can provide!). The animalistic and intense venture that is embarked upon once you are heading down that road will change your sex life like you never imagined anything could. Your body naturally reacts to the notion of reproducing, and it prepares itself mentally and physically. Don’t believe me? Try it! All you have to do is think about it. Just picture being impregnated or “planting your seed” with your partner, and also (possibly the most important part) imagine them WANTING that same exact thing. It’s the need to make that baby from both sides. Even if that’s not the intention, even if you don’t bring it up to them. When I say that no matter the kinks you and your partner practice, this little thought before or during will get you ready for anything and everything. We listen to our instincts on so many levels in our lives. This shouldn’t be any different.
"THE POINT IS, UNLEASHING YOUR SEXUAL INSTINCT CAN NOT ONLY GIVE YOU AN EXTRA BOOST INTO "THE MOOD" BUT CAN RE-LIGHT THAT FIRE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT'S IN A RUT."
To quote Robert California (I know, please don’t hate me!), “All life is sex”, and no statement is more true. It literally is. Life on this earth is sustained by water, food and sex. Awaken this in your mind; I promise it will bring you a sexual high that will never fade. In fact, as you read through this, you feel a little more alive than you did when you started… go with it! It’s pure body honesty, it’s natural, and it’s ingrained in our DNA to have sex! Let your mind wander with this. The moment I realized that my pregnancy fantasy wasn’t as much about actually HAVING a baby but more about “mating” changed my life. In fact, I was so worked up that I actually stopped my husband from what he was doing for a little afternoon roll in the hay. Not to mention, that feeling has not gone away, and it’s been well over a year since I had this realization. Now, at first, I didn’t tell him. I kept it for myself for months before I mustered up the courage to mention it, and I am so glad I did! It’s more than just “I want to put my baby in you” too. Over the last year, without elaborating too much, I’ve realized I want him to smell me, taste me, bite my neck and more.
All of these things and more play into instinct. Think about it. You like how your partner smells for a reason; you want intimacy with them for a reason! Why? Your body and mind are connecting with your partner! It knows what to do; you just have to take it all in and enjoy it! It’s become a full-body experience, without fail, every single time. We all have different experiences; this one, in particular, is something we can all share as creatures of the world. The acts might be different, but are they not all the same in the end? It’s fun, it’s healthy, and it’s a part of you. Whether you are flying solo in this fantasy or sharing it with your partner, you will not be disappointed! Trust those sexual instincts!
