16 Jun Intro To Pegging
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We all love that non-vanilla sexual desires are becoming less taboo to discuss with your friends and partners. One of the most fun ones that has fairly recently made its way into a mainstream topic of discussion is pegging. The most common definition of pegging you’ll come across describes it as a cis woman using a strap on to penetrate a male partner’s ass. But pegging isn’t an activity that has rigid rules for gender identity and dynamics. Getting from curiosity to doing the deed can be a road full of questions, misunderstandings, and possibly insecurities, but it’s a path well worth the journey!
WHY PEOPLE WANT TO TRY PEGGING
There are several reasons a person might want to try pegging, either as the giver or the receiver. Typically, penetrating is seen as the male role, and being penetrated is seen as the feminine. Flipping that can be incredibly hot for some folks, whether it’s in a dominant/submissive dynamic or just a quick frolic into role reversal. Whatever the reasons, it can and should be pleasurable and fun for everyone involved with proper communication and expectations.
LEARNING TOGETHER: EDUCATION AND EXPLORATION
If you and your partner are both brand new to pegging, spend some time online doing some reading and watching tutorials put together by more experienced players. Pulling up some pegging porn can be a fantastic way to heat things up, but it’s really important to remember that porn is for entertainment and it’s not always the best guide for trying something the first time.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT TOY
If you and your partner are both brand new to pegging, spend some time online doing some reading and watching tutorials put together by more experienced players. Pulling up some pegging porn can be a fantastic way to heat things up, but it’s really important to remember that porn is for entertainment and it’s not always the best guide for trying something the first time.
ADDRESSING COMMON INSECURITIES
Insecurities can come up for both people leading up to their first time. Some people might feel like they’re lacking somehow if their partner asks to be pegged, and that’s almost certainly not the case. Being penetrated might get stressed at the idea of being submissive when they’re usually dominant, but you can totally top from the bottom and vice versa! Even worrying that you won’t like it can cause some cringing, but if that does happen, just stop playing, and everything will be fine.
PREP AND SAFETY TIPS FOR YOUR FIRST TIME
Before you get down to it, make sure you have everything that you need to rock and roll. Use a new, clean toy if at all possible, and if you use one you already own, make sure it’s sterilized and won’t be going into a vagina after it’s been in an ass. Lube is your best friend when you’re using the back door, and there’s really no such thing as too much. Just double-check to be sure it’s compatible with the toy you’re using and won’t irritate anyone’s sensitive areas. Wet wipes will also be golden for cleaning up or if there’s a bit of a mess, because sometimes, shit happens when you party naked. Use an enema or take fiber supplements for a few days leading up to it to mitigate that risk as much as possible!
If you head into your first experience with pegging well-informed and prepared with full consent and understanding of the plan, you and your partner can expect to have a wonderful time and even bond with each other in new ways. If you don’t like it, you can always stop or keep your first time as your only time. There’s no harm in trying, and you might just have the best orgasm of your life!
Riley Cyriis is a New England-based indie content creator and mortician. She owns Cyriis Studios with her partner, Ryan Cyriis. She’s a cult survivor, a heavily-armed liberal, and the enemy of corruption and greed.
We all love that non-vanilla sexual desires are becoming less taboo to discuss with your friends and partners. One of the most fun ones that has fairly recently made its way into a mainstream topic of discussion is pegging. The most common definition of pegging you’ll come across describes it as a cis woman using a strap on to penetrate a male partner’s ass. But pegging isn’t an activity that has rigid rules for gender identity and dynamics. Getting from curiosity to doing the deed can be a road full of questions, misunderstandings, and possibly insecurities, but it’s a path well worth the journey!
WHY PEOPLE WANT TO TRY PEGGING
There are several reasons a person might want to try pegging, either as the giver or the receiver. Typically, penetrating is seen as the male role, and being penetrated is seen as the feminine. Flipping that can be incredibly hot for some folks, whether it’s in a dominant/submissive dynamic or just a quick frolic into role reversal. Whatever the reasons, it can and should be pleasurable and fun for everyone involved with proper communication and expectations.
LEARNING TOGETHER: EDUCATION AND EXPLORATION
If you and your partner are both brand new to pegging, spend some time online doing some reading and watching tutorials put together by more experienced players. Pulling up some pegging porn can be a fantastic way to heat things up, but it’s really important to remember that porn is for entertainment and it’s not always the best guide for trying something the first time.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT TOY
If you and your partner are both brand new to pegging, spend some time online doing some reading and watching tutorials put together by more experienced players. Pulling up some pegging porn can be a fantastic way to heat things up, but it’s really important to remember that porn is for entertainment and it’s not always the best guide for trying something the first time.
ADDRESSING COMMON INSECURITIES
Insecurities can come up for both people leading up to their first time. Some people might feel like they’re lacking somehow if their partner asks to be pegged, and that’s almost certainly not the case. Being penetrated might get stressed at the idea of being submissive when they’re usually dominant, but you can totally top from the bottom and vice versa! Even worrying that you won’t like it can cause some cringing, but if that does happen, just stop playing, and everything will be fine.
PREP AND SAFETY TIPS FOR YOUR FIRST TIME
Before you get down to it, make sure you have everything that you need to rock and roll. Use a new, clean toy if at all possible, and if you use one you already own, make sure it’s sterilized and won’t be going into a vagina after it’s been in an ass. Lube is your best friend when you’re using the back door, and there’s really no such thing as too much. Just double-check to be sure it’s compatible with the toy you’re using and won’t irritate anyone’s sensitive areas. Wet wipes will also be golden for cleaning up or if there’s a bit of a mess, because sometimes, shit happens when you party naked. Use an enema or take fiber supplements for a few days leading up to it to mitigate that risk as much as possible!
If you head into your first experience with pegging well-informed and prepared with full consent and understanding of the plan, you and your partner can expect to have a wonderful time and even bond with each other in new ways. If you don’t like it, you can always stop or keep your first time as your only time. There’s no harm in trying, and you might just have the best orgasm of your life!
Riley Cyriis is a New England-based indie content creator and mortician. She owns Cyriis Studios with her partner, Ryan Cyriis. She’s a cult survivor, a heavily-armed liberal, and the enemy of corruption and greed.
